I had a dream where I found myself attracted to someone who I wouldn't normally be drawn to. To my surprise, he felt the same way about me. However, he was upset that I had previously shown interest in someone who had mistreated me. Additionally, he was disappointed that I didn't recognize him when someone described him to me. I explained that I never saw him in that way, I admitted my feelings to him and we kissed. Ultimately, I felt guilty for hurting him twice in the past and asked him to forget about me.
This dream suggests that you have unresolved emotions and conflicting desires in your waking life. The person you are attracted to represents something or someone that you usually wouldn't be drawn to, indicating a departure from your usual preferences or expectations.
The fact that he feels the same way about you shows that there is a mutual attraction, even in unexpected situations. The disappointment and upset he feels about your past interest in someone who mistreated you symbolizes your own emotions about previous experiences in your life. It suggests that you may have regrets or lingering feelings about a past relationship that did not treat you well.
The fact that you did not recognize him when someone described him signifies a lack of awareness or understanding of this newfound attraction or opportunity. This suggests that perhaps you have been unaware of or overlooking this potential connection in your waking life.
When you explain that you never saw him in that way, it highlights your reluctance to embrace this new interest due to your own previous experiences and potential fear of getting hurt again. However, admitting your feelings and finally kissing him in the dream indicates a willingness to open yourself up to this connection.
Feeling guilty for hurting him twice in the past and asking him to forget about you represents your own feelings of unworthiness or self-doubt. You may be struggling with a fear of repeating past mistakes or causing harm to others, even though this person may genuinely care for you.
Overall, this dream suggests that you are grappling with conflicting emotions, unresolved past experiences, and a hesitance to fully embrace new and unexpected opportunities for fear of repeating past patterns. It may be worth exploring these emotions and reflecting on how they relate to your waking life, as there may be valuable insights for personal growth and future relationships.